Singel,Married or in between!?


Do we even know what we are,what we want and if it really works?
Singel: Simple,easy and lonely. Sex,drinks,flirt and useless phone number. Serious? I dont think so. When you are singel everything is exciting,new and a butterfly effect. You want attention,observation,compliments and a lot of flirting. Berhaps sometimes you do want an invitation home(not sex) just to see how quickly the guy want to get in to your pants but when the guy wants your number its bad,really bad. There are a few nice candies who really wants to get to know you and askes for your number but you rather not give it and tell him i see you the next time,you owe me a dance. Married: ln love,engagement,promise. Rutins,family, forever yours. Its new,adveture,obligations not really what you expected(right?) Well things never are but at least you are not alone,you don´t have to play,you have someone who has promised you the world. No more partying exept with him,no more screwing around,no more flirting to see if you have a chanse no you have now a man who tells you how sexig you are and how happy you make him. But what happends when you are...
In between: Confused,a little lonely,have a lot of cuestions. More attention,more answers,more affection. Its not easy to be in between,do we trust when he sais that he wants to be with you for the rest of his life,does that take the fear away that he is to good to be true and leave you one day. We cant be calm and say everything is going to be ok because you start to let your gard down and fall in love and what if he dosen´t say it back how will you ever know if he really wants you? I know that acctions speak louder than words but we do need to hear to,it could be a lie but it will be stuck in to our heads for the end of time and it will make us sure and somehow more safe to let go and to not worry so much anymore.
In Limbo is when we are in between dreaming and a awake and i dont want to be in between those any more i want my dreams to come true and to be awake when that happends. Im tired of being in limbo and not knowing when to wake up or to continue dreaming. Im not in a hurry but i need to know...So do every women in the world,one way or another.

Lesson of the day:
Its not easy being a women and complicated.
We wish we could think like guys and act lite them to.
Every women wants to hear what you are thinking and not just see it.
We need to hear that you care,love,worry.
Dont ever give up you will know where you are in life in time.

Peace,Love & Devotion
XOXO MISS C

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